Rejection Never Stopped Me. It Saved Me Time.

By Zach Schleien

I've been rejected by investors, journalists, partners, and customers. Every no was a redirect to a better yes.

I've been told no more times than I can count.

No from investors. No from journalists. No from potential partners. No from customers. No from people I respected and admired.

And every single no saved me time.

The Investor Who Said No

When we were raising for Filteroff, one investor told me: "Video dating will never work. People want to swipe."

Six months later, COVID hit. Video dating exploded. Filteroff hit #1 on Product Hunt and facilitated 2 million video dates. We raised $2.4M and were eventually acquired.

That investor's no didn't hurt us. It freed us to find investors who actually understood the vision.

The Journalist Who Ignored Me

I pitched my dad's COVID story to dozens of journalists before one responded. The ones who ignored me weren't the right fit. The one who responded introduced us to the New York Times op-ed editor.

If the first journalist had said yes, the story might have ended up in a smaller publication. The rejection redirected us to something bigger.

The Client Who Said "Too Expensive"

Early in my consulting career, a potential client balked at my rate. "I can get this cheaper," they said.

Good. Because the clients who pay premium rates are the ones who implement, respect your time, and get real results. The ones who haggle on price are the ones who don't do the work and blame you for it.

Reframing Rejection

Here's how I think about every no:

• Investor no = "We don't understand your market." That's fine. Someone else will.
• Journalist no = "This isn't the right angle for me." Okay. I'll find the right journalist or refine my subject line.
• Client no = "I'm not ready for this level of investment." Great. When you are, you know where to find me.
• Partner no = "Our priorities don't align right now." Perfect. Forced partnerships never work.

Rejection isn't failure. It's filtering. Every no removes someone who wasn't the right fit, which means the next yes is more likely to be the right one.

The Numbers Game

In PR, I send 20 pitches to get 1 feature. In sales, I take 10 calls to close 2 clients. In fundraising, we talked to 50+ investors to get our round done.

If you're not getting rejected regularly, you're not reaching high enough. Rejection is evidence of ambition.

The Takeaway

Stop trying to avoid rejection. Start trying to collect it. The fastest path to success is through the maximum number of no's - because somewhere in that pile is the yes that changes everything.

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